<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/' xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4807238897188927967.post1269047593364635555..comments</id><updated>2009-05-09T21:11:22.881+01:00</updated><title type='text'>Comments on The Pensive Quill: Living With it Every Day</title><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://thepensivequill.am/feeds/1269047593364635555/comments/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4807238897188927967/1269047593364635555/comments/default'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://thepensivequill.am/2009/05/living-with-it-every-day.html'/><author><name>AM</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/00559413440743290550</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='21' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/__RtQMk1SpuA/SftzLNVldVI/AAAAAAAAAP8/JWqOOxbzSEA/S220/AnthonyCol.jpg'/></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>10</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>25</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4807238897188927967.post-5716802210170167414</id><published>2009-05-09T19:48:00.000+01:00</published><updated>2009-05-09T19:48:00.000+01:00</updated><title type='text'>Sean wrote: "The shared troubles website offers a ...</title><content type='html'>Sean wrote: "The shared troubles website offers a dignified forum and an excellent template that others genuinely concerned ought to know about".&lt;br /&gt;I'm glad you found it helpful and hope you will pass the word along to anyone who might be interested.Alex&lt;br /&gt;PS I have absolutely no vested  interest in this site and have never been connected in any way with its set-up and development.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4807238897188927967/1269047593364635555/comments/default/5716802210170167414'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4807238897188927967/1269047593364635555/comments/default/5716802210170167414'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://thepensivequill.am/2009/05/living-with-it-every-day.html?showComment=1241894880000#c5716802210170167414' title=''/><author><name>Anonymous</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img1.blogblog.com/img/blank.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://thepensivequill.am/2009/05/living-with-it-every-day.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4807238897188927967.post-1269047593364635555' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4807238897188927967/posts/default/1269047593364635555' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-462644045'/><gd:extendedProperty name='blogger.displayTime' value='7:48 PM, May 09, 2009'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4807238897188927967.post-4193782389231021517</id><published>2009-05-08T23:43:00.000+01:00</published><updated>2009-05-08T23:43:00.000+01:00</updated><title type='text'>Sean, good piece. I knew the family. Visited them ...</title><content type='html'>Sean, good piece. I knew the family. Visited them in their Beechmount Grove home many years ago - long before Peggy went to Australia. Pearse was the only one dead at that time. Can't recall who it was I went up with.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4807238897188927967/1269047593364635555/comments/default/4193782389231021517'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4807238897188927967/1269047593364635555/comments/default/4193782389231021517'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://thepensivequill.am/2009/05/living-with-it-every-day.html?showComment=1241822580000#c4193782389231021517' title=''/><author><name>AM</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/00559413440743290550</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='21' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/__RtQMk1SpuA/SftzLNVldVI/AAAAAAAAAP8/JWqOOxbzSEA/S220/AnthonyCol.jpg'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://thepensivequill.am/2009/05/living-with-it-every-day.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4807238897188927967.post-1269047593364635555' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4807238897188927967/posts/default/1269047593364635555' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-61186401'/><gd:extendedProperty name='blogger.displayTime' value='11:43 PM, May 08, 2009'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4807238897188927967.post-8125244445787920745</id><published>2009-05-08T18:52:00.000+01:00</published><updated>2009-05-08T18:52:00.000+01:00</updated><title type='text'>`In relation to anonymous post re Sharedtoubles si...</title><content type='html'>`In relation to anonymous post re Sharedtoubles site, yes this is by far a better forum and closer to what i believe and feel is right. Thank you for this information.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;To sharedtroubles posting  thank you it is a important matter for all of us in our society and indeed those who suffered the loss of a much loved family member.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The family of victims ought not to be dishonoured or disrespected intentionally or otherwise. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The shared troubles website offers a dignified forum and an excellent template that others genuinely concerned ought to know about.  &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I didn't know about this site until now.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;My thanks to Anthony McIntyre and all others involved with The Pensive Quill, for publishing my viewpoint and especially for the subsequent enlightenment I have since received.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Go raibh mile maith agaibh gach.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Sean McAughey</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4807238897188927967/1269047593364635555/comments/default/8125244445787920745'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4807238897188927967/1269047593364635555/comments/default/8125244445787920745'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://thepensivequill.am/2009/05/living-with-it-every-day.html?showComment=1241805120000#c8125244445787920745' title=''/><author><name>Anonymous</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img1.blogblog.com/img/blank.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://thepensivequill.am/2009/05/living-with-it-every-day.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4807238897188927967.post-1269047593364635555' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4807238897188927967/posts/default/1269047593364635555' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-1525875089'/><gd:extendedProperty name='blogger.displayTime' value='6:52 PM, May 08, 2009'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4807238897188927967.post-7616770070852601160</id><published>2009-05-07T21:43:00.000+01:00</published><updated>2009-05-07T21:43:00.000+01:00</updated><title type='text'>Excellent piece written by somebody showing real c...</title><content type='html'>Excellent piece written by somebody showing real compassion and understanding.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4807238897188927967/1269047593364635555/comments/default/7616770070852601160'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4807238897188927967/1269047593364635555/comments/default/7616770070852601160'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://thepensivequill.am/2009/05/living-with-it-every-day.html?showComment=1241728980000#c7616770070852601160' title=''/><author><name>Sharedtroubles</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/02601939081389631713</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://thepensivequill.am/2009/05/living-with-it-every-day.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4807238897188927967.post-1269047593364635555' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4807238897188927967/posts/default/1269047593364635555' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-208916826'/><gd:extendedProperty name='blogger.displayTime' value='9:43 PM, May 07, 2009'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4807238897188927967.post-6284717556375308463</id><published>2009-05-07T19:04:00.000+01:00</published><updated>2009-05-07T19:04:00.000+01:00</updated><title type='text'>Sean wrote: "Perhaps a better forum will air the f...</title><content type='html'>Sean wrote: "Perhaps a better forum will air the familes truth and not only record but let their story be told - their way, perhaps". &lt;br /&gt;I don't know if this Shared Troubles website is what he has in mind but  it is worth  looking at and if any family member wants to add something . . .&lt;br /&gt;http://www.sharedtroubles.net/</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4807238897188927967/1269047593364635555/comments/default/6284717556375308463'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4807238897188927967/1269047593364635555/comments/default/6284717556375308463'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://thepensivequill.am/2009/05/living-with-it-every-day.html?showComment=1241719440000#c6284717556375308463' title=''/><author><name>Anonymous</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img1.blogblog.com/img/blank.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://thepensivequill.am/2009/05/living-with-it-every-day.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4807238897188927967.post-1269047593364635555' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4807238897188927967/posts/default/1269047593364635555' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-1275233730'/><gd:extendedProperty name='blogger.displayTime' value='7:04 PM, May 07, 2009'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4807238897188927967.post-836938930684277210</id><published>2009-05-07T16:15:00.000+01:00</published><updated>2009-05-07T16:15:00.000+01:00</updated><title type='text'>Thank you Sophie I do not consider your comments i...</title><content type='html'>Thank you Sophie I do not consider your comments insulting or in any manner offensive. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;This is a difficult and delicate subject for all of us.  But that is no reason to void it.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I endeavoured to higlight that  more than a listening ear is required and that a listening heart and soul is needed.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I am concerned about any forum that excludes the stories as told from the perspective of the family could be dishonouring their loss and the life of their dead family member.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Yes my memory recalls how grief was utilized as a platform in the press by Church leaders, Politicians and others.  The families were in a frozen state of animated suspension.  They were more focussed on mourning and burying their loved one with dignity to be concerned with the indignant behaviour in the media by others.  &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Decades has passed now and some families are thawing out from their animated suspension state and remembering how they were exploited and how their loved ones were misrepresented.  This is still a source of anguish and regret for them today. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Perhaps a better forum will air the familes truth and not only record but let their story be told - their way, perhaps.  &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Sean</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4807238897188927967/1269047593364635555/comments/default/836938930684277210'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4807238897188927967/1269047593364635555/comments/default/836938930684277210'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://thepensivequill.am/2009/05/living-with-it-every-day.html?showComment=1241709300000#c836938930684277210' title=''/><author><name>Anonymous</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img1.blogblog.com/img/blank.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://thepensivequill.am/2009/05/living-with-it-every-day.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4807238897188927967.post-1269047593364635555' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4807238897188927967/posts/default/1269047593364635555' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-653380953'/><gd:extendedProperty name='blogger.displayTime' value='4:15 PM, May 07, 2009'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4807238897188927967.post-5410556289891157374</id><published>2009-05-07T10:47:00.000+01:00</published><updated>2009-05-07T10:47:00.000+01:00</updated><title type='text'>Sean,

A comment like that can surprise a person. ...</title><content type='html'>Sean,&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;A comment like that can surprise a person.  I never called you a hypocrite.  People like me, anonymous posters shoot their mouth off much too quickly.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It was a good piece and I thoroughly enjoyed reading it, hopefully I'll be reading more of you here. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;My apologies if you took it as insulting. It wasn't meant that way, merely an observation, that others may agree with or not.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4807238897188927967/1269047593364635555/comments/default/5410556289891157374'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4807238897188927967/1269047593364635555/comments/default/5410556289891157374'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://thepensivequill.am/2009/05/living-with-it-every-day.html?showComment=1241689620000#c5410556289891157374' title=''/><author><name>Sophie.</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img1.blogblog.com/img/blank.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://thepensivequill.am/2009/05/living-with-it-every-day.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4807238897188927967.post-1269047593364635555' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4807238897188927967/posts/default/1269047593364635555' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-1079476531'/><gd:extendedProperty name='blogger.displayTime' value='10:47 AM, May 07, 2009'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4807238897188927967.post-7744603911514336711</id><published>2009-05-07T03:35:00.000+01:00</published><updated>2009-05-07T03:35:00.000+01:00</updated><title type='text'>Thank you for your comment Sophie.  Your reading i...</title><content type='html'>Thank you for your comment Sophie.  Your reading is right I am criticising politicians among others listed for point scoring and digging up the graves and leaving the bones there for families to rebury over and over again.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If you read that i am also guilty of what I condemn then I am a hyopcrite and I deserve and fully accept your criticism Sophie.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Go raibh mile maith agat &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Sean</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4807238897188927967/1269047593364635555/comments/default/7744603911514336711'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4807238897188927967/1269047593364635555/comments/default/7744603911514336711'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://thepensivequill.am/2009/05/living-with-it-every-day.html?showComment=1241663700000#c7744603911514336711' title=''/><author><name>Anonymous</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img1.blogblog.com/img/blank.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://thepensivequill.am/2009/05/living-with-it-every-day.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4807238897188927967.post-1269047593364635555' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4807238897188927967/posts/default/1269047593364635555' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-1529885775'/><gd:extendedProperty name='blogger.displayTime' value='3:35 AM, May 07, 2009'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4807238897188927967.post-9199303916145067066</id><published>2009-05-06T22:30:00.000+01:00</published><updated>2009-05-06T22:30:00.000+01:00</updated><title type='text'>Well, ya know, the Bible is pretty clear on things...</title><content type='html'>Well, ya know, the Bible is pretty clear on things like this.......&lt;br /&gt;As twice divorced, then re-married, now a Widow......  My sins aren't any different than anyone else's !  &lt;br /&gt;Black, white, green or purple.....  All our sins are equal in HIS sight !&lt;br /&gt;Society has no right to Judge like that..........&lt;br /&gt;Check out Christ's own words, in John 8: 7.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;God Bless you all.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4807238897188927967/1269047593364635555/comments/default/9199303916145067066'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4807238897188927967/1269047593364635555/comments/default/9199303916145067066'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://thepensivequill.am/2009/05/living-with-it-every-day.html?showComment=1241645400000#c9199303916145067066' title=''/><author><name>Sheila</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/13224488489368611047</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='21' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_jeC5F3P9ySk/SXIaSsmfCAI/AAAAAAAAAAM/_pDtJywduj0/S220/Gary+%26+me.......(%26+new+babe%27s)+009.jpg'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://thepensivequill.am/2009/05/living-with-it-every-day.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4807238897188927967.post-1269047593364635555' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4807238897188927967/posts/default/1269047593364635555' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-1735747650'/><gd:extendedProperty name='blogger.displayTime' value='10:30 PM, May 06, 2009'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4807238897188927967.post-199321025150201835</id><published>2009-05-06T20:09:00.000+01:00</published><updated>2009-05-06T20:09:00.000+01:00</updated><title type='text'>Well...!

On the first read it seems that you are ...</title><content type='html'>Well...!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;On the first read it seems that you are criticising politicians for using the dead to score points and then go and do exactly that yourself. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;I&gt; How can a committee of well meaning people who have not felt the pain of such loss decide what is best?&lt;/I&gt;No one can decide what is best, for what is good for one family may not be good for another, but I'm all in favour of any quango,committee, church or group who will give support to the families of the fallen. Even if it is only a listening ear, but hopefully more.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4807238897188927967/1269047593364635555/comments/default/199321025150201835'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4807238897188927967/1269047593364635555/comments/default/199321025150201835'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://thepensivequill.am/2009/05/living-with-it-every-day.html?showComment=1241636940000#c199321025150201835' title=''/><author><name>Sophie.</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img1.blogblog.com/img/blank.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://thepensivequill.am/2009/05/living-with-it-every-day.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4807238897188927967.post-1269047593364635555' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4807238897188927967/posts/default/1269047593364635555' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-1363292465'/><gd:extendedProperty name='blogger.displayTime' value='8:09 PM, May 06, 2009'/></entry></feed>